I am looking for a long-term, committed, monogamous friend-with-benefits (FWB) type situation. Actually, what I'd really like is a "part-time" boyfriend. I had one before and it was a wonderful relationship and situation (until he broke my heart). I'd like someone to spend the weekends with and sometimes an extra evening or short trips, etc.

I am described by friends as being an honest, caring, loving, giving, kind, trusting man.

I'm 55 years old, 6' 2" and about 185lbs. I have a thin build. My receding strawberry-blond hair is now turning a little gray around the sides. I have very hairy arms, legs, stomach and ass, but barely any hair on my chest. I have a reddish, full, thick goatee with shorter beard on the sides.

I am HIV negative, disease-free, recently tested. I'm on PReP.

I am in a LTR, but my partner, who is 14 years older than me, can't have sex anymore and due to health issues is even sensitive to touch. So, we mutually decided that I should look for someone to fill the void of touch, intimacy and sex that I am missing. My partner totally supports this decision and encourages it. He was friends with my previous boyfriend and he hopes I can find another. I have a lot of love and caring to share.

I'm very passionate in bed like to make out/kiss a lot, lots of body contact and love giving AND receiving oral (not into guys who are selfish in bed). I prefer oral, but if it comes to anal, I guess I'm a versatile bottom. I have enjoyed both roles in the past.

I'd like to meet a guy who is also very passionate and matches my sexual interests.

I only have three criteria:
(1) I like guys with facial hair (stubble, mustache, goatee, beard) and hairy guys, bears, otters, cubs, etc. The hairier, the better!

(2) I don't mind men who have a little extra padding (a "beefy" guy), but I'm not into chubs.

(3) You have to be able to host. I cannot host, just out of respect for my partner. Although, if things work out, it is possible that I will also be able to host.

Also, I'd prefer to meet someone who is single and not already in a relationship, but it's not a deal-breaker.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, then please get in touch. But, I'm too old to play games, so if you contact me, please be serious and please meet the three criteria!